How do I know if I’m in love? Are you asking this question because you have fallen head over heels in love with someone, but you are still not sure if it is true love or not? Trust me, if you’re in love you’ll know. Love is a fun thing; something magical if you want, which means you can change a person’s personality in more ways than one, but thankfully in most cases in a good way.
Being in love can be a beautiful experience, or a time of pain, anguish, and even sadness. There have been many boys and girls who had their hearts broken when the person they had a crush on showed no interest in them. Love can be cruel sometimes, but you have to move on.
Be careful when looking for love because too often people get into a relationship for the wrong reasons, overlooking the most important thing: love. You’ll find that most couples who break up do so because the bond to an eternal relationship never existed in the first place.
Signs that indicate that you are in love, and the telltale signs that a girl or boy likes you.
1. You have a good housekeeping. You erase past memories of an old love, such as memories of a relationship. This shows that you’re over it and that you’re ready to move on with that new person you adore.
2. You tend to be nicer to the people around you instead of being grumpy, that is if you are a grumpy person.
3. You long to be by that person’s side as much as possible. Years to wake up next to them in bed. You wait for the phone to ring and will do whatever it takes to keep others off the phone when they expect a call, even if it resorts to something as serious as blackmail.
4. You smile and your face lights up at the mention of his name. You know you’re in love when drawing love hearts with their name next to yours on paper becomes an obsession, or carving loving comments into the bark of a tree, in fact, anything your name looks good on will probably become on a target. Your heart races when you look at a photo of them, or maybe it misses a beat.
Some go so far as to break the law so that the world knows of their undying love. They can use a can of spray paint to say “I love you” on the side of a train, bus, or the bridge they pass by.
5. All your thoughts are spent on this person, making it difficult for you to focus on other things. When you’re both out and about, you don’t want the day to ever end. You spend a lot of time dreaming about them and the things the two of you can do on a date and in marriage.
6. He/she will be on your mind as soon as you open your eyes in the morning until you close them at night, that is, if you can sleep. Sleepless nights are a common sign to say that you are in love.
7. You find out your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend is getting married and you don’t care.
8. You’ve gotten over your shyness around your ex.
9. You share your past with your new love (where you grew up and studied). This is a sign that you want him to stick around and learn everything there is to know about you and hopefully share a little more than just nostalgia as you get to know each other better.
10. You tell them what you want from life, big and small.
11. Vacation flyers are a sign. Who would want to go on vacation with someone he didn’t love other than friends? So yes, a sure sign.
12. You can’t wait to show it off to your friends and family.
13. You are happy without doing anything together as long as you are with them
Ok, now you have a good idea that you adore this certain person, let’s look at some indicators that suggest they like you too.
Common signs that the person you like likes you
1. He/she is aware of who you are and what you are about. This tells you that they have done some homework on your background.
2. You always catch them looking at you from afar
3. They may be nervous in your company
4. Your friends are behaving strangely around you. They are likely to try to bring you together without you realizing what they are trying to do.
5. Your crush might gently tickle you as they walk by.
6. Goes out of his way to talk or be with you.
7. If the person keeps calling you for no real reason, is that a sign? If your excuse for calling doesn’t make sense, then it’s 100% guaranteed that the guy or girl likes you.
8. Can you notice that they act differently around you? Nerves can make people do some funny things, and in the case of a boy liking a girl, or a girl liking a boy, it’s usually always embarrassing things.
Are you thinking of taking on the lead role and doing what one would expect a guy to do, i.e. make the first move and ask for a date, if so go get him girl?
Tips:
Don’t waste time, stand tall with your head in the air and keep going. Approach him and introduce yourself. Don’t get discouraged and think the block doesn’t like you because it’s quiet. Men, just like women, can be shy. If he’s receptive, engage him in small talk. Get him to open up and ask simple questions about himself. Maintain eye contact at all times.
After a short while, his confidence will have built up, and of course it will be the perfect time to ask him out.
Asking a guy out is not easy for a girl, just like it is for some guys when it comes to asking a girl out. If you want this person, you just have to get on it and ask them out of it. Of course, it improves the chances of the relationship moving forward if the person feels the same way about you.
How will a person in love know if the person they have their eye on is interested in them if there are no clear signs? That shouldn’t be a problem because like I said, you just have to go up and ask them for a date to find out.
