So how do you subtly pick up a girl, exactly? Well, when you approach a girl you like, don’t be too direct, but don’t make it sound like you just want to be friends with her either. Try asking something simple like “Hi, I’m _____. Are you here with your friends?” After she responds, flirt a bit and then go back to the “I don’t really care” zone.
In other words, after you flirt a little for a few minutes, back off again and then flirt again and back off again. This will make her feel like you might be interested in her, but she won’t be sure about it. This, in turn, will send her on an emotional roller coaster and make her sexually confused and tense at the same time.
Believe it or not, your chances of picking up a girl with this method are much higher compared to if you try to pick up a girl with the direct method. In fact, the easy method is known to scare most girls who hang out in bars and clubs. However, if you are subtle and flirt and back off from time to time, you can successfully avoid the friend zone and gain the interest of the girl you are talking to in no time.