When learning how to flirt with a girl, you will come across two different types of methods: direct and subtle. The above method means being completely direct with the girl you like by dropping pick-up lines from left to right. The latter method, on the other hand, means being indirect and acting like you’re not interested in directly picking up a girl right away. However, this doesn’t mean you should be too nice and fall right into the friend zone. This article will focus on the subtle method and show you why it is so much more effective for picking up girls in general.
However, before you can learn how to pick up a girl subtly, you need to know why the direct method doesn’t work very well in general. See, attractive, fun, and successful girls usually don’t like being bombarded with cheesy pick-up lines. While some girls fall for it, most of them don’t. So, if you don’t like approaching one girl after another, you may want to go for the most effective method – the subtle method.
So how do you subtly pick up a girl, exactly? Well, when you approach a girl you like, don’t be too direct, but don’t make it sound like you just want to be friends with her either. Try asking something simple like “Hi, I’m _____. Are you here with your friends?” After she responds, flirt a bit and then go back to the “I don’t really care” zone.
In other words, after you flirt a little for a few minutes, back off again and then flirt again and back off again. This will make her feel like you might be interested in her, but she won’t be sure about it. This, in turn, will send her on an emotional roller coaster and make her sexually confused and tense at the same time.
Believe it or not, your chances of picking up a girl with this method are much higher compared to if you try to pick up a girl with the direct method. In fact, the easy method is known to scare most girls who hang out in bars and clubs. However, if you are subtle and flirt and back off from time to time, you can successfully avoid the friend zone and gain the interest of the girl you are talking to in no time.
