Would you believe that many women involved in a relationship have never had an orgasm in their lives? It’s true, and this fact just points out how many men don’t really know how to pleasure their partner. Of course, there are some women who can enjoy sex even without climaxing, especially when it includes intimate acts like kissing and hugging, but for most women, sex without orgasm is ultimately unsatisfying. If you want to learn how to make a woman orgasm, here are some tips that you might find useful.
One important thing to keep in mind if you want to make a woman orgasm is that the center of a woman’s sexual response is her clitoris. The clitoris is the only human organ that exists solely to raise levels of sexual pleasure, and learning how to stimulate it the right way can help a woman achieve amazing climaxes. One technique she can try is to focus the action of the tongue on the ten and two o’clock positions on the clitoral head and then glide the tongue over the clitoral shaft. The best position to do this is while she is straddling you and sitting on your face. This position also allows the woman to control the action.
There are female erogenous zones besides the clitoris that you should also be aware of to help you achieve female orgasm. A woman’s most sensitive erogenous zones when it comes to sexual arousal include the breasts, buttocks, and perineum, the area between the vagina and anus. Another area you can focus on is the right side of her spine, which you can kiss or stroke. Instead of a direct touch, opt for long, curved strokes that will provide more intense sensations.
Warm feet are also vital for a woman to orgasm, as they help make her more physically comfortable and sexually receptive. Try giving him a foot massage with a warming gel.
Although there is no direct stimulation of the clitoris during vaginal sex, indirect stimulation of the clitoris during sex is possible and can help make the experience more pleasurable for a woman. This technique is called clitoral excursion and consists of the woman positioning herself in such a way that her clitoris is between her pubic bone and her partner’s. During intercourse, as the man moves inward, the woman will move her pelvis down and out, pressing her clitoris firmly between the public bones as she rubs it up.
One position that is ideal for clitoral excursion is the position of the woman on top, with the man not pushing at all. This allows her to control the degree of pressure and movement of the clitoris while teaching the man the amount of movement and pressure that gives him the most pleasure. This position can also be used to prolong the sexual act. Of course, this position is also ideal for stimulating the clitoris directly with your fingers.
Whatever technique you use to make a woman orgasm, remember that for a woman, the greatest arousal is intimacy, so don’t neglect foreplay and after-cuddles.
