Both men and women have been masturbating since they walked the earth. It is a form of pleasure that helps relieve physical pain (such as from arthritis), helps with insomnia, relieves stress, and has many other positive effects. So what could be the best masturbation method to allow a person to get the most out of their masturbation sessions?
The answer to that question is simply which form of masturbation seems to provide the most “release” and pleasure for the individual. What works best for some people may not necessarily be the same for everyone. For example, some people use different forms of fantasy thought or visual or auditory stimulation as a performative adjunct when they masturbate. One person’s preference, in this case, may not be what another person prefers. This is more of a psychological preference. Another factor, which is more physiological than psychological, is that the receptors on the genitals of all people are not wired in the same way.
“Genital wiring” sounds like a strange concept, but it really isn’t. There are many, many types of nerve receptors that people have in their bodies. Nerve receptors are what get activated (sending information to the brain about the trigger) when different stimuli are applied to the body (both internally and externally). The receptors are varied and respond differently. Some respond to temperature, pain, vibration, temperature, light touch, and other stimuli. Since everyone is “wired” differently, not everyone will have the same receptors on their body (including their sexual organs). So while one person may be sexually stimulated by strong vibrational impulses, other people may not. Some receivers also have a different “recovery” rate. This relates to how quickly the sensor will be able to “bounce back” and provide the same sensory perception. Some nerve sensors can be constantly stimulated without diminishing perception. While other sensors take time to “recharge”, so to speak. Many receptors are made up of tiny misshapen bodies, similar to the structure of an onion. But between the layers of the onion are certain fluids (usually gelatinous in origin) that respond when a force is applied to the receptor that deforms the receptor and moves the fluid between the layers to initiate a reception. Typically, these are the receivers that take a little longer to “recover.”
Even if two people are connected exactly the same, there are other factors involved. Simple things like diet, health, and emotions will alter your receptive abilities. Even sleep and stress have an important relationship with sensory-neuronal information.
Since no two people are connected in the same way, it makes sense that no two people respond to the same form of sexual stimulation. A man can perform cunnilingus on a woman and could send her to the moon. Using the same techniques a week later may not have any effect for the reasons mentioned above (sleep, diet, etc.). If he applies the same techniques to another woman, as another example, he too may get a very different response. There are many factors and variables involved in this complicated science. Even things like smell and smell play an extremely important role in sexual stimulation.
So it makes sense that masturbation is a method where a person can really focus on the stimuli that give them the most pleasure. Since one is in total control, by himself, he can increase the friction or decrease it if he so desires; they can “wait” a bit and recycle some of their inner sexual energies; they can apply more pressure here or there and see what feels best; they can respond to immediate impulses and responses that a partner would not be aware of… Truly, the masturbator can modulate his technique(s) to best suit her sexual needs and desires. In real time, immediately, without delay.
Of course, there is nothing better than being emotionally “close” to a partner and exploring the sexual act together as a union of two people. But the truth is, if you want something done right, you better do it yourself.
As for the forms of masturbation, there are thousands of different forms and techniques that can be applied during the process. Book upon book and manual upon manual have been written on masturbation to help people explore this unity of sexuality and to help them make the most of it. However, one of the most intense and incredible forms of masturbation is often overlooked. This is the act of autofellatio and autocunnilingus.
Autofellatio is where a man orally stimulates his own penis. Autocunnilingus is when a woman orally stimulates her own vulva. Seemingly impossible, yes; but it can be achieved more easily than most people think. One of the reasons this masturbatory method is so amazing is because of the reasons we shared at the beginning of this article related to sensory nerve input. Truly, if one can knowingly apply what feels best and is most pleasurable to oneself, then intense sexual pleasure can truly be brought to its highest state.
You have all heard that the experts in performing cunnilingus are women; Surely you have heard that the experts in fellatio are men. The reason for this is that they know what it feels like, as they are equipped in the same way. Now, take the same knowledge and apply it to one’s ability to truly activate every little nerve of sensory pleasure in one’s own genitals… Truly, the rewards are immense and almost impossible to explain. It’s like trying to explain to someone what an orgasm feels like if they’ve never had one. Sure, one can use all the adjectives in the dictionary to try to convey the feeling… But that’s it, one is trying to explain and define a “feeling”. Feelings, as we all know, are impossible to understand unless one actually “feels” them.
Exploring sexuality, pleasure, and intensity through masturbation is a great way to relieve stress and learn about our own sexuality. Autofellatio and autocunnilingus are two methods that take this form of sexuality to unexplored and unexplored limits for most. People interested in discovering the intensity of self-sex and orgasm are encouraged to learn about these methods.
Good luck.
